Expect respect for yourself and you will get it. Our advice is: Change what you expect to get from your behavior. Right now you know what to expect from her - more of the same. If you expect respect for yourself, you will get it. Don't think being a jerk is the answer. It's not. You may win this woman for a short time by doing that... but then what happens when a bigger jerk comes along? Do you escalate? It makes no sense. You don't need to change who you are for another person. In fact, you shouldn't do this. What kind of relationship you want in life. Respect yourself and demand respect for yourself. You may not win her with this, but you'll find there will be someone better. Look at what you want... What kind of relationship you want in life, what kind of person you want to attract, what you have to offer. Get that straight in your head and you can easily walk away from the relationships that destroy your own self. Because you'll be confident that there's something better.